Where did the time go?

It’s hard to believe that it’s been 18 years today since I stood in a delivery room and watched my son enter the world.

It feels like it went by in the blink of an eye. From diapers to steps to school to driving…just like that.

While I look back and have many wonderful memories, I also see moments squandered and opportunities lost. Times I was busy or distracted, missing out on seemingly inconsequential details of life.

I smile when thinking of all the moments we have shared. Well, except for maybe the time I accidentally threw him off the bed or when I gave him a concussion playing football.

I also mourn those days that will never come again. Things I wish I had done. Times I wish I had paid better attention. Moments I wish I could have a second shot at.

Don’t get me wrong. It’s been a pretty good eighteen years. I know I’m far from the perfect dad. But I won’t let those lost moments shadow over so many great memories.

I share these words to remind each of us to cherish every moment we have. You will never live this day again and before you know it, your child will suddenly be an adult and your brown hair will be turning gray.